Virtual Roundtable

Women in Tech: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

“Imposter syndrome,” or doubting your abilities and feeling like a fraud at work, is a diagnosis often given to women. Women experience this confidence gap daily. A classic example of this gap is when women do not apply for a job role because she is not 100% qualified. Men apply for opportunities even if they are not a perfect fit for the role.

As you build your team, be aware of females who may be struggling with imposter syndrome. Here are a few tips to help everyone reduce bias and reach new heights in their career.

Challenge: Feeling unsure at work is normal.

Women are often given feedback about how and when to improve at every turn whereas men overcome feelings of insecurity faster because their intelligence and professionalism are validated more often.

Answer: Choose your phrases and words carefully.

Always validate your direct reports’ insight, ideas, and what they bring to the table.

Perhaps your team is hiring, and you refer a rockstar for the job. If your boss is interested, she should say, “This candidate is a great fit for the role because of X…Y…and Z.” Let’s leave it at this even if she’s not a perfect fit. When hired, create a professional development plan and work collaboratively with the candidate to improve her strengths.

Another strategy that can be applied in meetings is called “amplification.” Below is an example of amplification in action.

“When a woman made a key point, other women would repeat it, giving credit to its author. This forced the men in the room to recognize the contribution — and denied them the chance to claim the idea as their own.” – Juliet Eilperin via Vox

This model is applicable for all professionals seeking to level up their teams! https://www.vox.com/2016/9/14/12914370/white-house-obama-women-gender-bias-amplification

Challenge: Devaluing your experience

Have you also found yourself saying some form of “I don’t know how to do that?” Repeating this statement and variations of it is a sure way to devalue your knowledge and rob yourself of opportunities to grow.

Answer: Choose your phrases and words carefully. (Repeated because it is that important!)

Try instead, “I haven’t been exposed to “X” yet but am interested in learning more. Do you have best-practices to suggest?”

Challenge: Sorry not sorry

Women apologize constantly even though there is no need to. This is one area I’m personally working on. If you don’t see this line in my email you know I’m improving! “Apologies for my late reply.”

Answer: Be aware of your tone. AKA Choose your phrases and words carefully.

By simply changing your communication tone we can deliver the same message differently: “Thank you for your patience.”

Challenge: Filler words

We use too many filler words in everyday communication. This takes away from our power base.

Answer: Practice removing filler words in all your interactions.

Stop using filler words such as “like” and “you know”. You will see that your vocabulary will immediate expand.

If you have a team, keep an eye out for these habits from your team and work with your employees to correct in a one-on-one conversation as soon as you can. As a leader and mentor, choosing your words carefully is extremely important in these conversations.

Challenge: Evaluate how you value yourself.

Women tend to be over accommodating. Think about a time when a woman asked her colleagues if they’d like anything from the breakroom. Suddenly, that woman is the coffee run “girl”.

Answer: Stop being so accommodating.

Stop offering to get coffee or clean up the breakroom unless there is a schedule in place that requires everyone to do it equally.

Challenge: Getting an accurate picture of your current professional self

Having an accurate picture of your professional self is a necessary starting point to your growth and success. Artificial confidence is easy to come by but not helpful and sometimes destructive. Genuine and lasting confidence comes from constructive feedback. 

Answer: Find your squad

Find a group of individuals who provide constructive criticism and value your contributions, so you have true insights on areas of development. Remember, being nice and being kind is NOT the same thing. You don’t want to surround yourself with “nice” people who tell you what you want to hear. Find a squad who will be “kind” and tell you when you’ve messed up, when you’re devaluing yourself, and when you’re on the right track.

If you are struggling with imposter syndrome, mentoring a group of women, or leading a team focus on these areas for improvement. If you have questions, need more information, or would like to get connected to an amazing female leader email me!

Virtual Roundtable: “Driving Change in Crisis 2020” hosted by Insperity

Austin Technology Council presented the following Virtual Roundtable on April 9, 2020.

During a crisis 40% of business fail, and another 25% close their doors in the year following. Your business needs strong leadership, especially in times of crisis. We are all in unfamiliar territory and likely unprepared to identify the aspects of change leaders need to control and influence.

Event Objectives: 

  • Help leaders accelerate the process of making change happen in times of crisis.
  • Minimize the potential negative effects change can have on productivity, morale and collaboration.
  • Turn resistance into commitment and inspire team members to take ownership of change.
  • Clearly communicate the business rationale and benefits for the team and the organization.


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ATC promotes and supports the growth of the Austin Tech community, even in this uncharted reality. Through the ATC Virtual Roundtables, we work with your company to craft an impactful industry topic and then invite tech leaders to participate in open discussion facilitated by your company’s subject matter expert.

Virtual Roundtables are hosted online via fellow ATC member StarLeaf’s video conferencing platform. StarLeaf is the expert in video conferencing and unified communications and they have provided a few immediate no-obligation resources for ATC and our community to stay connected.

If you are interested in hosting a Virtual Roundtable please reach out to Beth Darby, Head of Sales, Beth@AustinTechnologyCouncil.org.

Virtual Roundtable: “Getting Through the Noise When 10M People Are Unemployed” with Intry

Austin Technology Council presented the following Virtual Roundtable on April 8, 2020 hosted by ATC Member, Intry.

The team from Intry, an HR technology that uses AI and algorithms to better match job candidates and employers by up to 240%, discusses the new challenges both job seekers and employers are currently facing, and how to block out the hiring noise when unemployment rates have grown to a shocking 10M so abruptly.


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ATC promotes and supports the growth of the Austin Tech community, even in this uncharted reality. Through the ATC Virtual Roundtables, we work with your company to craft an impactful industry topic and then invite tech leaders to participate in open discussion facilitated by your company’s subject matter expert.

Virtual Roundtables are hosted online via fellow ATC member StarLeaf’s video conferencing platform. StarLeaf is the expert in video conferencing and unified communications and they have provided a few immediate no-obligation resources for ATC and our community to stay connected.

If you are interested in hosting a Virtual Roundtable please reach out to Beth Darby, Head of Sales, Beth@AustinTechnologyCouncil.org.

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